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There have been numerous discussions and debates on the male and female. How we should treat them equally ...feminism...and all that...
I truly believe the two can never be the same. That were never meant to be. I feel we women are made up of an altogether different ingredient. We think differently, we act defiantly. We make even those sacrifices which are not expected out of us. And then feel sorry and then make life miserable. Why does a woman let other woman be happy because she cannot understand why the other woman did not have to make the sacrifices that she had made? Actually, all of us are living a false life. We pretend- We pretend to be happy, to be happy make those little or big sacrifices, pretend to be in love, pretend in sex, pretend to be happy in our husband’s happiness, pretend to be in control, pretend pretend pretend and just pretend. We hardly are the real we and when we are not pretending, we appear to be pretending.
I often ask myself. Why are all sacrifices, all understanding, all maturity...everything expected out of us? Why if the kids, or even the mother in law is not well, why is the lady expected to stay back and not the son or the husband.  
You know why because we do it. Men don’t fake it... Not in bed, not outside, they are more real.
Women need to be more real, more sure. We should give a damn to what others think. Slowly people will accept you the way you are. If you want to be a rebel...be one...check if it gives you any happiness...and if it doesn’t admit that you were wrong.
We women had chosen to be not happy from within and it is what we teach though not through words always but actions also at times.
I at times want to run away and hide but I feel I am running from my responsibilities but who assigned them to me. Who told me these are the ones that I need to fulfill?
But yes, shying away is never a solution. We need to find a way that would help us fulfill our responsibilities our own way. The way we want them. No questions asked.

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