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I read an article about how a female MP had advised to a rape victim. She was criticized for saying that the victim should not have gone into a vehicle where three people were already present.
And I ask people what is wrong in that, the world around women has become so bad that we have to tread carefully because we are surrounded by wolves and one wrong step can lead us in trouble. Like when one is surrounded by wolves, we have to be careful about every step. We have to analyze, plan, look, keep our eyes and ears and nose and even our sixth sense awake, similarly we need to analyze the world around us.
The world, the way it is going seems, will take a long while to grow civil. Stop objectifying a woman.
It is Ok to judge clothes but it should not be an identification of character
Like Short skirt-Slut
Salwar suit-Behenji
It should be just like whether the dress suits her or not and again, It is entirely her and only her choice what she wants to wear.
Please treat it like a choice. Some girls love to experiment with their looks. Some are scared and they look the same over the years. Some girls love short dresses and I must say girls look great but some girls might not be comfortable. Isn’t it same as a stage fear, some nail it on the first occasion while some are shy and some don’t want to do it. They don’t like it. But it doesn’t mean that they belittle the ones who do it. It is a matter of choice.
And I ask people what about the small kids, those small babies-what is the criterion of judging their character.
I was fortunate that I lived in a small safe city where my parents were not worried about my safety. So they never had to teach me about good and bad touches and men. I leant them when I entered the Capital city. And it was scary and I get more scared after I became a mom and my heart shudders every time I read a case. And we today’s mom have to make small girls aware. I feel we are taking away something from their innocence. Damn the people. Damn you all monsters. May God give to hell in a hell.
I would definitely advise every girl. Don’t go even with acquaintances. Be very very cautious. You never know how an innocent looking guy is hiding a dirty monster inside.

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