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Being an extremely friendly and helpful person- this was the opinion I got from the people around me, I thought life would treat me differently. I made sure my Karmas were right, my conscience clear, and the people around me happy. I would go an extra mile to do this. But little did I know what was in-store for me was nothing less than what I thought only people with bad Karmas get. I always believed that if you do the things right- be polite, adjust and change – you would be able to change a rock into cotton.
My own thoughts now amuse me, how puerile of me. Well I was a child when these thoughts stood true for me. As you grow up-as in grow up in the real sense, you realize how imprudent of me.
Life ahead came as a hard slap; I was jolted back from my dreamy world into the real world. World that just doesn’t care how you have treated them and they only care about how they think they can treat you.
People around me never saw the goodness in me, they only saw the gaffes. I tried in vain to wait but all they saw was only what they wanted to see, never what I tried to show them. I got them gifts, they saw what I did not get them or that it did not match their style. I tried to talk to them, all they saw is something hidden in my conversation. I tried again and again but failed each time
It took me a long time to understand that THEY WOULD NEVER SEE the goodness because they did not want to see it. They only see the faults. They can’t believe that someone would means good and the intentions are not bad or wrong. It is foolish to expect them to understand. So CHILL and never stop being nice but don’t expect them to notice. They won’t


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