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Awakening


Oh, I am Sorry I was looking somewhere else!!  I forgot to notice you
Sometimes we forget to look at the right places at the right time and miss something really really important.
A girl looking for mister perfect sometimes does not find him even after getting married because she did not look at the right place at the right moment, she missed those moments when she was really taken care of, those small moments that contribute to a lot.
It may sound bookish but it is true that if concentrate only on the negativity of life, we miss noticing the positivity. We miss enjoying the moments of bliss and feel dejected.
It is so very important to appreciate people who love us. It is true that only love does not make this life a success but with loved ones around, one can fight a lot many battles, the only thing is to recognize your positives. They could be people or even the circumstances.
Self-pity is your greatest enemy and enemy are those who make you feel that way. People who do not help you come out of it. Appreciate the critics – because they would make your stronger. They force you to make things done and when they do it, you do not only prove them wrong but also internally it makes you happy too.
I seek advice only from my best critics who make me feel miserable about the way I think and so force me to think differently. I know these people like me otherwise. I keep them close- very close. Externally they might not appear as my best friends but internally I know where to go when I want to come out of my downhearted state. They really jolt me down.
I feel better always – yes after I am done with the convulsion of anger.


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